love101

It almost seems like i am pursuing sociology majoring in boy/girl relationships degree in Uni. Probably a double degree in 'feminism' as well. ;) Too much hanging out with jshi (*wink*)& focus ppl. (not a bad thing, infact we manage to come up with a few pretty interesting theories)

I won't go through every theory but J.shi came up with something i find worth pondering.

1) Girls always fall for 'jerks'.

Not jerks as in JERKS but more like imperfect guys, the one who doesnt meet every criterias in her checklists.

eg:"I will never date someone who is not a gentleman."

"A guy who swears is a big turn off"

"I will never be with a guy who throw tantrums"

"I will never be with someone who doesnt remember important dates"

"I hate rude guys"

"He is such a slacker, no way I'll ever fall for him"

...and yet she breaks all rules.

Why?

because during the period of loving a 'jerk' , you develop patience, so so much of them.. because it is not self-seeking to love someone who doesnt meet your wants/requirements/checklist and so you tend to love unselfishly. You learn to not boast, and because he is such a 'jerk' , you then develop perseverence altogether.

Wow, sounding so much like the true definition of Love.

Indeed.

The ultimate love is very hard to achieve.

because if the perfect guy ever exists, you'd probably not develop all the above mentioned.

In conclusion, girls always fall for 'jerks', and just don't mind going through so much and putting up with all the crap.

Because only through that can LOVE exist.



So yeah. Who's to say loving a 'jerk' is a bad thing?